At first I found it very difficult to banish my thoughts. I preferred
the breathing exercises I learned in acting classes, where we counted our
breaths for six beats, held them for six beats, exhaled for six and again, held
our breaths again until all nervousness subsided.
Doing these exercises, I discovered my heartbeat, and that I could slow
it down using my breath. But I saw little application for my life, outside of
conquering stage fright. Little did I
know I was practicing mindfulness as a teenager.
For the last six years, I have embraced meditation and
consider it a necessary part of my day. I try to begin and end each day with at
least 15 minutes of meditation. Studying with Buddhist teachers, I’ve come to
learn techniques that make the practice easier. I’ve also discovered books that
have helped. None have been so comprehensive and encouraging as The Mindful
Manifesto.
I think it’s important for a book that encourages mindfulness
to cite scientific research. Otherwise, readers may feel like I did thirty
years ago when I was told to sit down and shut up. The Mindful Manifesto is not
only an easy book to read, but it engagingly reports on research on why
meditation works.
One of the biggest surprises as a novice meditator was my
new found ability to handle surprises. Raising a young boy means sometimes
having said young boy try to scare the bejeebus out of you as you round a
corner in your own home. Before I
started meditating regularly, I would literally jump and scream when startled. As I meditated more, my son was impressed to
see me turn calmly to him and smile sagely when he jumped out at me. It may have ruined his fun, but I was stoked
to have this superhero quality.
So reading why this happens, how the brain actually changes
due to meditation, was an eye-opener. The authors cite studies that showed that
after only eight weeks of practice, “grey matter in parts of the participants’
brains had increased in density by 1 to 3 percent, affecting areas known to be
implicated in learning and memory, as well as self-awareness, compassion and
introspection.”
The authors (Jonty Heaversedge is a medical doctor and Ed Halliwell is a writer/mindfulness
teacher) share exercises and tips that help break down the steps necessary for
a successful meditation session. I particularly enjoyed the ways of viewing
thoughts. I know how difficult it is when you feel like you can’t think whilst meditating.
That’s not the goal at all. Instead, the idea is to not latch onto your
thoughts. Many people are taught to view them like passing clouds. But you may
prefer to see your thoughts float by on a stream, or watch them pass by like
trains at a station, or as an audience member watching a play. I had fun
envisioning my thoughts form as bubbles being spoken on stage by Ian McKellen and
floating up into the lights.
There are the standard exercises here too, like the one
where you focus on a raisin (I must’ve read this exercise at least in three
other books I’ve read recently) but this book is very good at encouraging the practice
of mindfulness as it details the benefits gained from all the applications
covered in each chapter. Their call to action is very persuasive. The authors
have also set up a companion website and list other resources, in addition to
comprehensive end-notes.
I’m certainly glad to have read The Mindful Manifesto; I
just wish my college buddy was able to loan it me ages ago, instead of having
to learn meditation “on the street” so to speak. My practice will be richer for
it, and I feel better equipped to explain why everyone should “sit down and
shut up” at least a few minutes a day.
FTC Disclosure: I received
this book for free from Hay House Publishing for this review. The opinion in
this review is unbiased and reflects my honest judgment of the product.
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